You're in the right place, HSP!


Highly Sensitive People often find dating overwhelming, exhausting, frustrating, and discouraging -- they feel misunderstood, isolated, and anxious. If this is you, I'm here to help you change that.  





I‘m Jessica, and I’m looking forward to guiding you through a dating experience that’s about as far from the struggle you’re accustomed to as it could be.  

We’re social creatures; we desire deep, authentic connection and romance.  Pop culture and social media make it look easy — but for an HSP, finding a partner can seem incredibly daunting. 

I believe you are worthy of MORE — I’m here to tell you that you are lovable, just as you are!

Your HSP qualities are not flaws, or to be hidden.  They are your superpower! Let me show you how to capitalize on them and to find the love you deserve.

Are you terrified of ending up alone because of your sensitivity, or that you’re not capable of loving another person?

Are you swimming in doubt about finding “the One” or just “the One for now”?  

Do you feel the high of new love one minute, only to come crashing down into irritation or exhaustion the next?  

I understand your pain.  I’ve been there! But I’m here to tell you that the OPPOSITE is true.

Your sensitivity is your strength! 

But you don’t have to figure this out on your own. I’ll be there to guide you every step of the path to relationship happiness and self-confidence.

With my support, you’ll gain the tools and mindset to find love that flourishes BECAUSE of your temperament, not in spite of it!

Here are a few of the things I’ll teach you in my Signature 1-on-1 Coaching Program:

How to navigate the frustrating waters of the online and dating app world without losing your sanity

How to find partners who support your sensitivity and even share it, and have similar goals and values

How to date mindfully and with self-awareness

How to make friends with your uncomfortable emotions rather than letting them run the show

How to decrease anxiety before, during and after dates

How to unwind and relax during the dating process

How to escape beliefs about yourself and your HSP traits that keep you stuck

How to let your HSP light shine to romantic interests

How to build a better relationship with the one who’s always there — YOU!

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Work with Me

One-on-One Dating Coaching Program

Want to get back in the dating driver’s seat, but feeling totally hopeless as to HOW?  My signature one-on-one coaching program is the #1 way to embrace your sensitivity and empower you to date with confidence and, dare I say it, even excitement!

Dating Guru in Your Pocket

For those who flourish with less face time, I am excited to offer unlimited monthly support via email and WhatsApp – it’s like having your personal dating consultant in your pocket!

Group Coaching and Courses

Learn about options for coaching within the group setting, as well as go-at-your-own-pace courses designed to boot your dating happiness into high gear!

Client Success Stories

“I am so grateful I found Jessica – her coaching approach is no BS, but also warm and compassionate.  She helped me shift my unhealthy dating habits and develop a regular self-care routine so I’m far less stressed out, about dating and in general!”

Jen T.

“For most of my life I felt like a huge raw nerve — people constantly told me I was ‘hypersensitive’. Working with Jessica showed me the value of my sensitivity and how I can maximize it in all of my relationships, not just with my boyfriend.”

Shannon L.

“Very helpful.  Professional. Offers a unique insight into emotions many struggle with and don’t recognize.”

Dave M.


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